Friday, January 27, 2012

My Special Needs Family

The Lord blesses us with all kinds of families to enrich our life. We have our biological family, our ward family, our neighborhood family, our community (PTA) family and for me my Special Needs family. These amazing people have taught me so much about love, our Heavenly Father, friendship, kindness, finding humor in everyday life, accepting trials that are handed to you and just being HAPPY. The youth buddies were incredible and advisors were the best. Thank you all!

Last night I had to say good-bye for a season to this amazing family. Many tears and hugs were shared. I really cannot imagine not seeing them every Thursday night and having them boost my spirits. Their hugs and smiles ignites life into me. It has been an honor being in your presence. You will always be engraved in my heart – never far from me.

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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Kindred Spirits

My life has been blessed with wonderful friends. I cannot begin to express the joy and happiness they have brought into my life. I have met these kindred spirits in all kinds of places – in church callings, in PTA, in community service, and most recently at the FM100 Christmas concerts.

About four years ago I started attending the Christmas concerts at the South Towne Mall every Tuesday and Thursday from before Thanksgiving until Christmas. It is the Christmas gift that I give myself every year. I love the concerts! So from noon to 1:00 I am entertained with incredible performers sharing their musical talents with me and many others And it is FREE! What more can you ask for? I received a bonus gift – I met some kindred spirits. There were two ladies that also attended every concert and we started a friendship. For the first few years we just saw each other at the concerts and then would wait an entire year before we saw or talked to each other again. When the time drew close for the concerts to begin, II would look forward to seeing my “Concert” friends more than the actual concerts. My children would tease me about my “Concert” friends because I talked about them so much. What a reunion it was to see each other again. What an added gift from my Heavenly Father they are. Truly kindred spirits.

This year we decided that our friendship was going to extend longer than just Christmas time (we would decide this the year I am leaving for 18 months). We planned a get together (our husbands also started attending the concerts and quickly felt part of the group) last Friday night and we had a great time. I feel like I have wasted four precious years of knowing these incredible ladies by not extending our time together.

I want to thank them for their friendship and love. What an added gift from my Heavenly Father they are. They are truly kindred spirits. Enjoy next years Christmas concerts without me!

Cindy and Tom Urban









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Sunday, January 15, 2012

Thankuary 2012

Last night we had our Lombardi 2nd annual “Thankuary” dinner.  A few years ago Cassie and Trista came up with the idea of having a dinner in January with Thanksgiving food that is different than the usual Thanksgiving feast.  Foods that maybe not everyone would like.  We also have been able to include Cassie’s parents who live in Ohio that come to visit after the holidays. We had a great time with great tasting food like brussel sprouts, a yam side, potatoes and yams, loaded mashed potatoes, turkey fixed differently, stuffing that had apples (I think that is what it was) in it, ham glazed, salads, yummy rolls and bread, carrot cake, chocolate/raspberry cake and pie. I am sure that I forgot something. So good and fun.  Thanks Koy and Cassie and all of you for a wonderful evening!

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Oops, I forgot how they taught me to rotate pictures.  So just turn your head and I’ll have to relearn later.  There were a lot of children there also enjoying the festivities but they were all running around somewhere. My cup runneth over!

Friday, January 13, 2012

Opening Our Mission Call

New Years Day

New Years Day this year was on Sunday so it was a little different.  We always have balloons for everyone on the tree and inside is a surprise of money.  Not much but enough to make it exciting for the kids.  Also, on the tree are fortune cookies for everyone  This year’s fortune cookies were so appropriate for our leaving for our mission.  One granddaughter’s said that she was going to visit someone in an exotic location – South Africa is pretty far away and exotic.  Another grandsons said something like someone far away is waiting for a letter from him.  Which we will in about two months.  We have lots of food spread out for everyone – soups, dips, drinks, rolls, candy, desserts.  Since church was at all times, the family came at different times all day long. We enjoy the family coming over.  They brighten my day and bring so much joy into my life.  I can’t even think about not having them around because it is like thinking about what my mother is doing on the other side – I can’t begin to even comprehend it. I will miss them all terribly. 

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Christmas 2011

It was a wonderful Christmas season, except for the no snow. We enjoyed all the gatherings and the spirit that comes with the holidays.   All the family gathered together on Christmas Eve for dinner, a Jeopardy game on South Africa, a program and live nativity scene that was the best ever!  Den and I reserved the church house this year for the program.  It was fun and provided us with a lot more room for the festivities.  When we are altogether we have 34 and with great-grandpa makes 35!  We ended up back at the home for opening of presents and dessert.  It was such a wonderful evening.

Trista, Cameo and Trina’s family slept over night with Pace and Misti.  So we had a house full of people for Christmas morning which so much better than being by ourselves. Thank you guys for sharing your Christmas morning with us.  Santa was good to everyone. Eventually everyone came over throughout the day.  It could not have been better. Our cup truly runneth over.

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Opening our mission call

On November 9 we eagerly awaited the mailman.  Dad and I could hardly stand the anticipation.  At about 3:00 our kind mailman personally walked it up to our door and let us know we could have gone to the post office to pick it up ourselves that morning—we’ll have to remember that for the next time.  Winking smile

Dad wasn’t here when it came, so I started calling my children to tell them the news.  Nobody was home!  I was sad.  I finally got hold of Cassie, and she spread the news via email.  The family, minus Brian and Jeremy, gathered at our home for a quick dinner.  Everyone had submitted their guess of where we would be serving, and we marked them on Cassie’s huge map of the world.  There were a few guesses in Hawaii—that sounded like a good option.

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Earlier that day we had gone to the temple, and dad had “seen” a picture in his mind of some dark-skinned people with hats walking down a dirt road.  We were all wondering if he was a crazy old man or if there was something to what he had seen.

At exactly six o’clock we all gathered in the family room to open the envelope and see where we’d be spending 18 months of our lives.  As soon as Bret and Cindy walked in the door, we opened it.  I read ahead while dad read it out loud for everyone and felt overwhelmed when I read “South Africa Durban Mission”.  “Oh my gosh!” were my exact thoughts, and there were a lot of those exclamations once everyone heard. 

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We know this will be completely foreign to anything we’ve ever done but we are thrilled for this new adventure.  And as my daughter’s friend said, we had to be called to the other side of the world so we couldn’t come home for every “emergency” in our family’s lives.